Hi, my question..Are you both married? If yes, you have the right to transfer and live with your wife. Your Ausländerbehörde will transfer all your documents to your wife City (Ausländerbehörde).
But if you are NOT married, or no strong evidence that bide both of you together, Eg, Marriage, Child or relatives. Sorry, it might be difficult. You can try ( No harm in trying)
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