Hello and welcome to Wefugees.
Thank you for your question.
From what I have heard, it is indeed not always so easy to get married in Germany as a refugee.
We answered a similar question a week ago, maybe you will find that answer helpful.
https://***.wefugees.de/814273/i-want-to-marry-but-the-bamf-is-holding-my-passport-what-can-do
Also, there is a helpful summary about the process of marriage that you can find at our blog:
https://wefugees.wordpress.***/2018/04/20/heiraten-in-deutschland-how-to-marry/
I hope to have helped you with this. If you have any further questions or are looking for advice, a registry office or similar in your area, we can help you with your question.
With best regards
Saskia Miersch