Hi @twilight_
If the letter was a rejection of your asylum case, then in general a person has 7 days to appeal this decision. The seven day period starts from when the letter was delivered to your place of residence. If you only received the letter in person later, the deadline stays the same.
There is an administrative procedure a person can do to have such a deadline changed if they missed the deadline through no fault of their own. This is called ‚Wiedereinsetzung‘ and you can read the legal basis for this in German here:
https://***.gesetze-im-internet.de/vwvfg/__32.html
If you did not inform BAMF about your new address, I do not see such an application have a chance of success.
I do not fully understand what BAMF has now said they are sending you. As I understand it, the decision has been issued and sent to you and BAMF has confirmation that it was delivered to your known place of residence. While they can send you another copy of the decision, this does not change the date it was delivered to you. If possible, you should get the original letter from the Asylheim. You should also check the second letter they are sending to see whether it is a copy of the initial one (in German ‚Zweitschrift‘).
In the case of a standard asylum rejection, a person is given a deadline of 30 days to leave the country. After this point, the Ausländerbehörde can arrange for a deportation. Here is official information from BAMF:
https://***.bamf.de/EN/Themen/AsylFluechtlingsschutz/AblaufAsylverfahrens/Ausgang/Aufenthaltsbeendigung/aufenthaltsbeendigung-node.html
It’s good you have informed them of your Ausbildung. In addition to the Ausbildungsduldung, a person doing an Ausbildung whose asylum case is rejected can get the regular residence permit 16g. You must still make a written application for either an Ausbildungsduldung and/or the residence permit 16g with the Ausländerbehörde. You mention phoning authorities and writing emails. While this is good to keep them updated, it is essential that you submit a written application. A phone call with an authority where a person told you ‘not to worry’ is no replacement for an application in writing, signed by you and sent with the necessary additional documents. In the worst case scenario, the authorities can say you never applied for anything after having your asylum case rejected and threaten you with deportation. Emails and phone calls you had in the past will not change this. If you need help writing an application, a migration advisory service in your area can assist you free of charge. Here you can **** for one in your area:
https://bamf-navi.bamf.de/en/Themen/Beratungsstellen/
Whether you can get an Ausbildungsduldung or the residence permit 16g depends on whether your identity has been clarified and if you are financially secure. If so, then you can get the permit 16g. To be considered financially secure, you have to have 666 euros per month. With the permit 16g you are allowed to work 20 hours a week in addition to your Ausbildung. Otherwise you can get an Ausbildungsduldung and get financial support from the Sozialamt.
Best,
Éanna