Dear @MM,
Welcome back to the Wefugees Community and thank you for reaching out to us again.
"Handbook Germany" is summarising the rules very well: "Asylum seekers can obtain a work permit if they have been in Germany for 3 months and are no longer obliged to live in an initial reception facility. If you still have to live in an initial reception centre, in case you have underage children, you can obtain a work permit after 6 months- and if you don't have children, after 9 months. Rejected asylum seekers whose application have been rejected due to the Dublin agreement i.e. other EU countries are responsible for their case AND those who come from a safe country of origin and have applied for asylum after August 31, 2015, cannot obtain work permits.
IMPORTANT: Your work permit will be only valid for a specific job. Your future boss will need to fill a form to describe the offered position, and you should apply for a work permit. Once both forms have been filled and submitted, the immigration office is obliged to react within two weeks. If you have not received any answer, contact a counselling centre. You can also submit an emergency application to the Administrative Court."
I think in your case it would be very helpful to contact a counselling office to support you. Can you share your approximate location with us? I would be happy to make some research on contact details - I am sure we can find respective services in your area!
All the best,
Meike