Welcome to the Wefugees Community and thank you for reaching out to us.
Your situation seems to be indeed complicated and I am afraid that it is hardly possible to give you a profound advice without knowing your individual conditions very well. Questions like, is your wife German or what type of residence does she hold? Is she working and can she cover your both' costs of living? etc. will be important, too.
I will link here two of our experts as well. Dear @mbeon-fardeen or @mbeon-Ruth, is there any information you can share or anything you can recommend?
From my point of view, I would highly recommend you to get in contact with a refugee/migration counselling office to get individual help and to discuss your situation in more detail. Please let us know if you need support in finding a respective office close to your place of stay.
All the best, Meike