Welcome back to the Wefugees Community and thank you for your question.
I find it quite difficult to give you any tailored advice or suggestion on how you may proceed without knowing sufficient background information. You should definitely discuss the next potential steps with your lawyer. If there is a realistic chance that the court will grant you a protection status, I would definitely not take back the asylum application. At the end you will be more independent and don't rely on your spouse, his or her work situation etc.
However, I will also link two of our experts here, who may want to add their thoughts on your situation. Dear @mbeon-caritas or @mbe-on_Zsigó, do you agree and/or do you have any suggestions for @kathy?
Please feel free to get back to us if you want to discuss your situation further or you have any more questions.
All the best,