Dear Mr./Mrs.
I am writing this e-mail to ask the possibilities of my marriage in Germany. I have been living in Germany for 4 months. I am waiting for the decision about me. My problem is, I have a fiancee in my home country. We were going to marry, every preparations and reservations were ready. However since I had problems in my home country, I had to flee from my country and cancelled all the planned things. My fiancee is still in my home country, she can come to Germany as a tourist. However she cannot apply for asylum because she does not have any reason except me. Since we are not married on the legal paper, she cannot say that she is married with me which means that she cannot want family reunification. I also mentioned this problem in my interview. We have cancelled wedding invitations, engagement party photos etc.
Shortly, we want to marry and live in Germany. But I could not find a way to marry in Germany. The requirements for marriage in Germany is so complex and reaching some documents such as National passport or marriage certificate for me is impossible. Because I cannot go to the homeland embassy or my home country. Some people say that it is easy to marry in Denmark but although I have the residence permit and marry in Denmark, I do not know if it works or not.
My questions are;
1. If my fiancee comes to Germany now and apply for asylum, can we marry as two asylum seekers? (She is going to say "we were going to marry with this guy, but since he had problems we could not marry, I am here because of my future husband, that is why I am applying for asylum")
2. If we wait for my residence permit (I hope I will get soon, because I have friends who are in the same situation with me, have their 3 years residence permit), then would it be possible to marry in Germany? I will be refugee she will be tourist. Or at that time, Can auslanderbehorde provide any document which helps my fiancee to get marriage visa? It will be like family reunion.
3. The last option is, If I get the residence permit, I can travel to Denmark with German id and passport, she can travel to Denmark with her national passport and schengen visa. Can we marry in Denmark? After that if she applies to aslylum in Germany, will our marriage be accepted by BAMF?.
Many thanks in advance for your time and help. I will be so happy if you can suggest any solution.
Kind Regards