How can i stop immigration from granting my baby's dad residence permit?

Question

Hello,I live in Germany.  I got pregnant for my boyfriend who is an asylum seeker. We were planning on getting married after delivery.  Only for me to discover later that he wasn't serious. I overhead him saying after getting his residence

permit he will travel to America. We are now separated.  We have joint custody of the child. I don't want him to travel to USA because he needs to stay so he can take care of his child too.  How can
 I stop the immigration from granting him
the permit through my daughter? Thanks

Answer 1

Nawa o , because of this reason?

Watin man do man ?

Answer 2

Why would you do that to a man you have spent good time with? Having such intention has already shown the kind of person you are and what the man has been going through in your hands. Settle with him and be happy again cos no other person would take you serious anymore. Please go back to him.

Comments

Don't assume please. I loved him with everything in me. Supported him financially and otherwise. I believed all he told me. After I put to birth, he took copies of the child's birth certificate and passport. He immediately changed after that. Started calling one lady from his ctry on video calls in my present.  That's where I heard his plans one day . When I asked him, he told me she's his fiance. That he can't marry me because I'm not from his ctry, not as beautiful and educated as his fiancee. That he needed to sort himself out here and I just helped him to achieve that. The next day he packed out and has been posting the girl all over social media. He doesn't check on his child. He has appointment at the immigration. And he told me I can never stop e immigration from giving him document. He used me and rubbing it to my face. I'm depressed already. Would you clap for him for treating me this way if I were to be your sister or daughter.

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So sorry for going through all this! Please try and settle with him. God will help you through this

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Hallo, Just this story itself can help with the immigration. He tricked you and used you to get what he wanted. My sister when a man want to leave you can't stop him. He will continue to emotionally abuse you. You can also avoid sharing custody with him if you haven't. Take care of your child and one day you will meet a man who will marry you and value you.