Dear @Derek,
I agree with @Meike, your case is too complicated to be solved on this platform. Please try to contact a good refugee advisor in your town or nearby. There is certainly several places to turn to. Google "Flüchtlingsberatung" and your city. Or contact me via mbeon.
Regards
mbeon-Ruth
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