Dear @MM,
Welcome to the Wefugees Community and thank you for reaching out to us.
I think it will be the best to contact a counselling office to address all of your questions and to get some individual advice. If you follow this link, you may find some contact details of different organisations and offices in and around Esslingen.
I hope this helps and please don't hesitate to get back to us with any further questions.
All the best,
Meike