Dear adpec21,
Thank you for reaching out to the Wefugees community.
I will give you some informations about the possibilities to stay in Germany.
At the moment you will have a residence permit as the wife of a German. (§ 28 Aufenthaltsgesetz).
If you separate before 3 years, you will lose this residence permit. It is then possible to apply for a stay for professional reasons.
You write, that you have a bachelor in computer networking. This is a non-regulated profession, but sometimes it's better to recognize it.
Here are more informations:
https://***.make-it-in-germany.***/en/jobs/recognition/academic-qualifications/
For a new visa, you would normally have to contact the German embassy in the USA, but you can also try to apply for a visa at the immigration office in your home country. In this case, the immigration office
In this case, however, the immigration office of your place of residence is informed of your separation
Here are more informations abut the different kinds of working visa:
https://***.make-it-in-germany.***/en/visa/kinds-of-visa/work-qualified-professionals/
I would like to recommend that you visit a migration advice center at your place of residence. here are the adresses in Frankfurt/Main:
https://***.vielfalt-bewegt-frankfurt.de/en/angebote/services-offer-refugees
I hope my answers were helpful and I would be very happy if you would contact me again or my colleagues with further questions. I'm a member of the mbeon-staff and we’ll be glad to guide you over a longer period of time. mbeon is an online advice for migrants via the mbeon app, which you can install on your smartphone for free. Download it from App Store or Google Play Store. In the mbeon-app you’ll get confidential one-to-one advice in a safe virtual room where nobody can read messages. For Further information please visit ***.mbeon.de.
Best regards,
your mbeon advisor
manrhei-mbeon