Welcome back to the Wefugees Community and thank you for reaching out to us.
As you tagged “child-custody”, I assume that you are referring to a case in the family court? Unfortunately, I am not an expert on family law. However, you may want to speak to the “Jugendamt” concerning the custody, contact rules and the well-being of your children first. They mediate between interests while they are always focusing on the children’s needs. If they can not help, consulting a lawyer specialized in family law might be the next step.
I hope this helps and maybe other members of the community can share experiences as well.
All the best,