Dear Mrs. Minjiski,
thank you for searching answers in the community. I am a migration cuncelor and work for in a project called mbeon.
I must be honest, I am afraid that I can not give you a proper answer to your question, but I try to give you a tip.
First of all, you are married with a polish man un Poland. That means, that he is a citizen if a EU country. The easiest way to forget all your problems ks to go through the integration procedure in Poland, get the polish citizenship and through this procedure become a member of an EU country.
I know, it is easy said, but it costs time. But it is worth doing it. Than you can forget any stress regarding your status.
I hope I could help You a bit. If you have other questions which are more confidential,you can contact a councelor through an app mbeon. You can get it directly from the AppStore (https://apps.apple.com/de/app/mbeon-messengerberatung/id1408795643
) or Google Play (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=de.zone35.mbeon
). It is free of charge.
I wish you all the best.