Thank you for sharing your situation with the Wefugee Community!
Although you explained many details, it is still a bit difficult for me to fully understand your situation. It seems to be very complex. If you want to explain a bit more or share any updates, we would be happy to discuss further. However, I would highly recommend you to get some professional legal advice, i.e. in a counselling centre. If you need any help in finding one, let us know!
All the best,