Dear @maxbasem7, Welcome back to the Wefugees community als thanks for sharing your question. As our platform and our experts are based in Germany, I am afraid that not too many people can share experiences on life in Malaysia here. But there are some organizations in Malaysia, which offer services for refugees, as i.e. legal counseling. Please see the following website for contact details and more information (http://www.refugeelegalaidinformation.org/malaysia-pro-bono-directory).
Doing some research, I also found a newspaper article on marriage of refugees in Malaysia (http://english.astroawani.com/features/married-refugee-36185). The whole process seems to be difficult, however not impossible. But in any case, I would recommend you to contact one of the earlier mentioned organizations.
I hope this helps and all the best, Meike