Dear @Dcooper,
thank you for sharing your question with the Wefugees Community!
I found this free counselling centre in Lüdenscheid. I didn´t find any information about if they also offer consultation in English, but you might just ask via the e-mail-adress:
https://***.diakonie.de/services-for-immigrants-and-refugees/facility/?tx_diakonieservicenavigatoren_servicenavigator%5Bid%5D=diakonisches-werk-des-ev-kirchenkreises-luedenscheid-plettenberg-fachbereich-migration-fluechtlingsberatung-frankenstrasse-1-58509-luedenscheid&tx_diakonieservicenavigatoren_servicenavigator%5Baction%5D=detail&tx_diakonieservicenavigatoren_servicenavigator%5Bcontroller%5D=Institution&cHash=cffe2b8a66755f6bf1a524a18a55b8f6
There is also a free counselling centre in Iserloh, which is pretty close to Lüdenscheid. They for sure offer consultation in English, so that might be worth the visit:
https://***.drk-iserlohn.de/angebote/integrationsberatung/migrationsberatung.html
Besides from that you can find more counselling centres close to you via this link, f. e. in bigger cities close to you. Just leave the box for city/postal code free and enter Nordrhein-Westfalia in the box for "Federal State":
https://adressen.asyl.net/language/en/welcome-to-informationnetwork-asylum-and-migration/
If you are looking for good asylum lawyers close to you, you can always ask at the counselling centre if they have a recommendation for you. Besides from that, here is a list of good lawyers in your federal state. Just scroll down to where it says "Nordrhein-Westfalen":
https://adressen.asyl.net/rechtsberaterkonferenz/
I hope this was helpful. Please don´t hesitate getting back to the Wefugees Community if you have further questions!
All the best
Melina