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Hello dear Team! I have my positive Bamf entscheidung that gives me and my 12 years old son aufenthaltserlaubnis for 3 years. I have a question that really make my brain blow out. For almost 3 years me and my son  living with my boyfriend and we have year 2018 our (gemeinsame)daughter. He took all his responsibilities for our daughter  He payes even half the Wohnung for himself and our daughter, plus versicherungs. Before Sozial played our wohnungkosten for me and my son. After our positive answer from Bamf we should  be transfered from sozial to jobcentre. Jobcenter saying that they will count us as a Bedarfgemeinschaft because wir living together. Is that means that me and my son will not be payed for our house and other stuff by jon center? The problem is that I don't want to be dependent from my boyfriend. He works and earn almast 1900€ monthly but he pays car credits, car versicherung and other stuff and ofcourse he helps us a lot because the money that sozial played before were not enough. Who has similar situation. Is that mean that my boyfriend will pay for all this and jobcentre will not pay us? I have small kid unfortunately I can't go so fast to work may be need 6 months more to give her to kindergarten. I'm so worried about everything. I thought my stress  will be gone but I was wrong
Help me with information pls.
Thank you so much
asked Dec 8, 2019 in Home & Living by Guly

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May be some one can calculate approximately how much will pay my BF and how much JC
Than you
answered Dec 8, 2019 by Guly
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