Thank you for reaching out to us again with your question. I've had a look at your previous threads and am very sorry to hear it's taking so long to receive an answer from the Ausländerbehörde.
As for your question to us - I'm unsure if I can be of better help than your lawyer, or Nilab and Thorgen, who have replied to your questions before. You have consulted a lawyer before, what happened last? Your lawyer already applied for a residence permit for you based on your marriage with your partner, is that correct? Have you filed an appeal because of the long waiting time at Ausländerbehörde, as you described to Nilab last time?
All the best,