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..it all started when I want to jugendamt to book appointment for vaterschaft and sorgercht because i was pregnant they ask me to write my boyfriend name and I said I can't spell it so they book the ask for me which was January and we go for the appointment they ask my boyfriend to go out and they ask me some questions about my boyfriend after then dey call my boyfriend inside and ask  me to go out they also ask my boyfriend questions after then dey call me to come inside and say our answer didn't correspond ..That dey can't sign the vaterschaft dat maybe after I give birth and we Left that day.. after I give birth on March I waited for them to call me but dey didn't and me and my boyfriend go to again to book another appointment which was this  month and they sign the vaterschaft and sorgercht for us.After then we book appointment in the standesamt for baby birth registration but they say dey can't put my boyfriend name that the jugendamt send them a letter not to because they are not sure about the father but since then have not hear anything from them.. and the my boyfriend aspect the child.. please I need advice
asked Jun 2, 2024 in Asylum proceedings by Susan | 1,045 views

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Hi. Just by reading your story the moment you could spell your boyfriend's name its a clear sign you are lying to them. They gave you separate interviews due to your answers not corresponding again meaning its a sham relationship.

Since Jugendamt reported the case to Standesamt the only way is to prove this via DNA test. Only Jugendamt can help you and conduct this procedure. Talk to your lawyer to contact them.
answered Jun 12, 2024 by Simi
Have done that but it been two months now haven't receive any response from them...and my baby father and I is not really in a good relationship it just that I get pregnant for him that is and his name it a native name.. so why will they sign the vaterschaft if they not believe us
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