Hi @usagican,
Parents in the asylum process (with Aufenthalsgestattung) are not entitled to Elterngeld. This is covered in paragraph 1, section 7 of the law on Elterngeld:
****://***.gesetze-im-internet.de/beeg/__1.html
There are exceptions for citizens of Turkey, Morocco, Tunisia and Algeria. If this applies to you, I can provide you with further details.
Best,
Éanna