Dear @Malcolm, dear Jeannette,
Thank you for your question. First of all, I would highly recommend you not to publish any private data (as names, contact details etc.) here. It is a public platform and in case you post data here, we are not able to protect them. You can still edit your text above and remove those details! Regarding your question: Yes, unfortunately, people with subsidiary protection can (currently) not benefit from a privileged family reunification (without being able to being independent from social benefits etc.) if they got married after the immigration. However, as your spouse graduated in the Netherlands - is he not able to get a working visa here? Did he try already?
I will link two of our experts here. Dear @mbeon-fardeen or @mbeon-Christine, do you have more ideas how the couple can reunite in Germany?
All the best,