l write here with a broken heart. The date for marriage is set for 2weeks to come but my fiancé canceled last minute. I can't force him but l feel shuttered.  l got rejected from BAMF last month before processing our marriage documents at the Standesamt. My lawyer did appeal.  

 My Aufenthaltsgestattung expired last week and haven't received a new one from the Auslanderbehörde, I was told the person handling it is on holiday, is it safe for me to live without any document whilst l wait for the person to come back from holiday? l am even more scared especially now that the wedding is off will l be deported what do l do? I need prayers and strength.

Thank you
asked Aug 25, 2020 in Asylum proceedings by kathy | 432 views

Please log in or register to answer this question.

1 Answer

0 votes

Dear @kathy,

Welcome back to the Wefugees Community and thank you for reaching out to us.

First of all, I am very sorry to hear that you are in such a difficult situation and that your marriage is cancelled.

In Berlin, for instance, they introduced an Online-registration system to extend different types of documents temporarily.

I don’t understand why only one person is able to issue the “Aufenthaltsgestattung”. Maybe you can talk about it with your lawyer as well. Did they give you a paper explaining the current exceptional situation  in the immigration office or something like this?

However, from my perspective you also should not worry to much, as the authorities most probably will not deport you only because your paper expired since a couple of days.

Would you agree @manrhei-mbeon or @mbeon-Bernd?

All the best,


answered Aug 28, 2020 by Meike
mbeon App

Confidential one-on-one consultations via App

For confidential one-on-one consultations in a secure virtual space, we work with mbeon. You can download the mbeon app free of charge from the App Store or Google Play Store and have private conversations with mbeon consultants there:

Link for iPhone
Link for Android

Welcome to Wefugees, where you can ask questions and receive answers from other members of the community.
5,132 questions
6,105 answers
139,112 users