Dear @Easytemmy,
Welcome to the Wefugees community and my apologies for the longer waiting time!
- First of all, I'm a little confused about the legal status you have. Your child was granted international protection, and your wife a national ban on deportation, is that correct? And you received a rejection, but appealed the decision? If your wife received a national ban on deportation, she was issued a residence permit for at least one year. Here is more information by the BAMF: ****://***.bamf.de/EN/Fluechtlingsschutz/AblaufAsylv/Schutzformen/AbschiebungsV/abschiebungsverbot-node.html
- Since you mention that you have a lawyer, it is essential you discuss your case with him and take his advice - he knows all the details of your case and is therefore able to help you out more than we are.
- That said, your lawyer can advise you on your options regarding staying with your family. I would recommend to not cancel your asylum, as there are options to receive the same protection as your child in Germany. Read about residence permits for parents of foreign children who have been granted a residence title here: https://service.berlin.de/dienstleistung/305289/en/
I hope this information helps. As I already mentioned, your lawyer has more information about your case at hand, so please check with him about your options.
Feel free to reach out to us again if you need any further assistance!
Kind regards,
Isa