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My husband has been abusing me verbally for the past 3 years of marriage. Although he has been making threatens like""*mark my words, l will deal with you*. Yes l have make police report before.

But about two weeks ago he came to my house and threatened me with the same sentence again because jobcentre has asked me to register for unterhalt and I obliged which he will be charged. He does nothing for the children nor pay anything to me to take care of them.

Luckily for me , he sent a voice message to his uncle emphasizing that he will kill me and my other two children which are not his through**black magic** and his uncle sent it to me telling me to watch out. He forwarded to text to me which I still have it on my phone.
Please my question is will the police take that threat seriously?  Thanks
asked Nov 13, 2024 in Legal advice by Lydia | 873 views

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Dear Lydia, 

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. 

Yes, the police in Germany do take threats—especially in the context of domestic violence—very seriously. That includes verbal threats, texts, or voice messages. If someone threatens your life or your children’s, it’s a criminal offense, no matter if they mention “black magic” or not. The key is their intent to cause fear or harm.


What you can expect:

  • Immediate protection: Your and your children’s safety is the top priority. Police can take urgent steps like removing the person from your home or finding safe shelter for you.

  • Using your evidence: The voice message and text are important proof. Save them and share them with police—they strengthen your case.

  • Legal steps: You can apply for a protective (restraining) order to stop all contact. If they break it, that’s another criminal offense.


What You Can Do Now:

  • Report the threat to the police as soon as possible.

  • Keep all messages and evidence!!!

  • Reach out to local women’s shelters or support services—they can help you with legal advice and emotional support.

  • Write down a summary of what happened and when—it helps later in court or when talking to the police.

✨ One last thing:
Even if a threat includes strange or spiritual references (like “black magic”), it still counts. What matters is the fear it causes. You’re not overreacting, and you deserve to feel safe. ❤️

All the best, 
Conny

answered Apr 20 by Conny
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