Hallo.i don't know so much about your situation and how you came to visit and then applied for assylum. What I can just tell you is that **** for an auslander lawyer before going back to your home country,because if you have no child in Germany ,it's almost impossible for the embassy to give you a visa to comeback especially if you overstayed and seemed assylum. Just search for a lawyer, he or she will advise you about your situation..and also here on Wefugees can also help in some ways when people read your question.i hope everything goes well with your situation.