My dear David,concerning what you are asking,I would advise you to get a good immigration lawyer now on your case before the baby is born,reasons are if your asylum was already rejected by court and you are in hiding,secondly He will guide you through the process of regaining back your duldung so as to apply for resident.Because I was once in panic just like you but I didn't go back to my home land before I got my resident.all thanks to wefugees who gave me a good legal advice and everything went well and my resident permit was granted in one month.my dear get a good lawyer.thanks