Hey I really want to speak to German people and to be friends ❤️
I live in Bochum
If you're keen to make friends in your area, you could try www.meetup.com. It's free to set up a profile and it's a good way of meeting groups of local people who share your interests.
Good luck :)
I found a meet and greet event hosted by Flüchtlingshilfe Bochum:
Scroll down to Aktuelles und Veranstaltungen and on Wednesdays there is "Flüchtlingscafe", which is a place to both meet new people and a chance to practice German if you want!
maybe you do not need this anymore... But if you are interested, a good event to meet open people, germans and refugees, can be: january, 20., 18:30h Christuskirche Bochum: "United Voices" with music, bands (Yakamus), food and speeches. there will be several initiatives, which help or connect refugees and germans in Bochum.
God luck and maybe meet you there!