Welcome to the Wefugees Community and thank you for your question.
As far as I understand it seems to be unclear which government (Ausländerbehörde) is responsible for your residence permit application. I assume you are entitled to get a residence permit as spouse of an EU-citizen. Maybe it will help to get some support in a local migration counselling office to clarify the responsibility and get in contact with the immigration offices.
I will also link two of our experts here: Dear @mbe-on_Zsigó or @mbeon-Ruth, can you give some advice or additional information?
Please also don't hesitate to get back to us with any further questions.
All the best,